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Wanting the Fairy Tale

[03 May 2020|10:21am]
Love, Marriage and Fairy-Tales (Help for Partners of Sex Addicts)

A fairy-tale relationship. A fairy-tale marriage.

Isn’t that exactly what we wish for ourselves when we tie the knot, and repeat the words “I do”?

We enter the relationship with hopes and dreams. We picture a long life of love and happiness. And that’s not so naïve. It’s the way things should be.

But what if there’s deception and broken trust? What if there’s betrayal and infidelity?

If this becomes our story, is it still possible to describe our marriage as a fairy-tale?

The Little Mermaid kills herself at the end.

It’s been 7 hours and 15 days

[08 Mar 2020|5:30pm]

I miss you. I miss sitting on the couch and watching random, foreign Netflix things, or a YouTube binge comprised of nothing but Warhammer 40k games and painting tutorials. Most of the time, I had no idea how you could sit and watch 3 guys trash talk each other’s dice rolling skills for two hours.…

It’s Complicated

[18 Oct 2019|1:30pm]

If I had to put it in words to make it  “Facebook official”, that’s how I’ve described our relationship status over the last year: it’s complicated. Back Then He was arrested on a Wednesday. Two days later, Friday, I called a lawyer to inquire about divorce options. The lawyer explained what I’d need in terms…