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Ends, and beginnings

Yesterday sucked. It was soul-suckingly awful. There’s no other way to put it. We got there early, because that’s what he does. He was slated to be seen at 9:30 am, and popped out of the courtroom to update me at about 11:30. “They’re on recess right now, and they need to get one of…

I’m tired.

It’s Monday again. I’m spending the morning outside the courtroom, in the same loud hallway I was in two weeks ago, sitting on the same cold, metal bench. He just wants to get past all of this, to the point where he’s taking a shitty plea offer in exchange for risking jail time if he…

Holidays, One Year In

I’m not expecting anything to go well at all this holiday season. First up, Thanksgiving.  Last year, we were invited for dinner at an aunt and uncle’s house.  After the shit hit the fan, I went alone.  Everything was fresh and raw and no one talked about what was happening. Even though he was at…